so, I’m in the middle of a “fight” with a “friend,” and its not really a fight, I just can no longer be friends with him right now.
its complicated, but not really, because at the heart of it is trust. he does not understand that the same person, me, who trusts him, must use my mechanism for trust.
and I use it for him like I use it for everyone else. he thinks he is deserving of my trust but others are not, and degrades them according to his criteria. weekday he fails to realize, if I used the criteria he wants me to superimpose on everyone, we would never have eclipsed acquaintances, and, truth be told, maybe we haven’t.